1. Private Country Club Memberships: The Primary Member Tie-Breaker
A membership at an elite institution like the Bel-Air Country Club, Riviera, or the Jonathan Club is a major financial asset. Initiation fees can range from 100,000 dollars to over 500,000 dollars, often paid with community funds during the marriage. Under California community property law, the non-member spouse is strictly entitled to 50 percent of the financial value of that investment.
However, the right to physically use the club is governed by the club’s private corporate bylaws rather than standard family law.
Most luxury clubs enforce strict rules regarding divorce:
- The Primary Designation: Memberships are typically issued to a single primary individual. In a divorce, corporate bylaws almost universally state that the primary member retains the slot, while the associate spouse loses all access and privileges.
- The Approval and Waitlist Hurdle: Some clubs allow a non-primary spouse to apply for their own separate membership without paying a new initiation fee, but this still requires formal board approval, background checks, and navigating multi-year waitlists.
- The Value Offset Strategy: Because you cannot physically split a country club slot down the middle, Katherine Cohan frequently negotiates creative financial offsets. If one spouse keeps the premier golf membership, the other spouse must be compensated with an equivalent community asset, such as a high-end wine collection, a contemporary art piece, or extended exclusive access to a seasonal vacation home.
